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Paul M. Hanrahan

4/30/2019

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Paul M Hanrahan passed away Tuesday, April 30, surrounded by his loving family at Saint Joseph’s Hospital Center in Syracuse after a brief illness.
            Paul was a man of tremendous accomplishments, performed in a quiet, unassuming way with a liberal dose of self-deprecating humor.  As a resident of Skaneateles, New York, for over 50 years, Paul was an active leader in almost every aspect of town and community.
            Paul’s priority was his family and his wife of 63 years, Rose.  He was delightfully engaged in his children’s and grandchildren’s activities over the years as a coach, cheering section, and constructive mentor. 
            Music was a passion for Paul.  He was a widely requested clarinet player, sitting in with many local bands, Dixieland sessions, and special events, including his children’s weddings. 
            Paul’s strong faith foundation was formed early in his life while attending Saint Anthony of Padua School through 12th grade and as a young man at Le Moyne College.  He was a communicant of Saint Mary’s of the Lake Parish in Skaneateles for over 50 years, and was active on the leadership teams furthering the parish development and growth.  Paul was named a Knight of the Order of the Holy Sepulchre.
            Paul graduated from Le Moyne College in 1952 and received his law degree from Syracuse University College of Law in 1955.  Following his graduation, Paul joined the United States Navy, where he served as Trial Counsel of General Courts Martial of the Armed Forces of the United States.  He was also an Admiral's Aide, stationed in Portsmouth, New Hampshire.  
            Paul joined the Firm of Hancock, Doerr, Ryan & Shove in 1959.  He was with the firm, now Hancock Estabrook, LLP, until 2015, retiring at 85 years of age. 
            Paul was a creative and skillful trial attorney and gave many years of dedicated service to his clients and firm.  Paul exemplified the highest principles and traditions of the legal profession and service to the public and was widely known as skillful, committed and brilliant trial lawyer whose feats in the courtroom are legendary.   During his long and distinguished career as a trial lawyer, Paul was long-standing counsel for St. Joseph's Hospital, the Roman Catholic Diocese of Syracuse and personal counsel to the Bishop.  He also served as counsel to Crucible Steel for many years. He served as an invaluable mentor to several generations of young associates at Hancock Estabrook and has helped further their careers as successful trial lawyers in Onondaga County and beyond
            Paul was named an Honorary Lifetime Member and Fellow of the Onondaga County Bar Association in June of 2005 for 50 years of service to the Onondaga County bar.  He was also a lifetime member of the New York State Bar Association, serving as Chairman of the Trial Lawyers Section and Member of House of Delegates, and was also a member of the American Bar Association.  He was a Fellow of the American College of Trial Lawyers. 
            Paul was a member of the St. Joseph's Hospital Foundation Board of Directors and the Board of the Syracuse Diocese.  He is a past president of the Le Moyne College Alumni Association Board.  
            Paul is predeceased by his parents Martin J. and Marie H. Hanrahan and a brother Robert D. Hanrahan.
He is survived by his loving wife Rose (Sbardella) Hanrahan
married on August 27, 1955; Four children: Mary Rose Greenough, Christine Anninos, Cynthia Kuzma (Vaughn),
Paul M. Hanrahan, Jr. (Katy); 12 Grandchildren: Katherine Milne (Euan), Andrew Greenough, Jack, Vincent, George Anninos; Jacob, Benjamin, Claire Kuzma; Grace, Jane, John, and Marty Hanrahan; 1 great-grandchild, George Milne; and many loving nieces and nephews.
            A funeral mass will be held on Monday, May 6th, at 10am at St. Mary’s of the Lake Church, Skaneateles with a reception to follow in the parish center. Paul will be buried in St. Mary’s Cemetery, Skaneateles.
In lieu of flowers contributions in Paul’s memory may be made to Saint Mary’s of the Lake Parish in Skaneateles; or Skaneateles Ambulance Volunteer Emergency Service Inc. (SAVES).
To send condolences, visit robertdgrayfuneralhome.com.
 
 


 
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Joyce V. Wilcox Lombardi

4/27/2019

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Joyce V. Wilcox Lombardi was born on January 7, 1938 in Auburn, New York but was a native of Skaneateles.  She passed away at the age of 81 on April 27th.  She was the daughter of Howard and Erma Wilcox.  Joyce was better known as "The Card Lady" at K-mart and "The Candy Lady" at Auburn Rehabilitation & Nursing Center.  Due to health issues she had to retire at 55 years of age and was employed by The American Greeting Card Corporation.
Joyce was married 51 years to her late husband Luigi Lombardi of Auburn. Joyce was also predeceased by her parents, Howard & Erma Wilcox, her sisters, Janice Wilcox and Betty Wilcox Bakke and brother Jan H. Wilcox as well as her grandsons Bryce Parmele and Dylan Lombardi Parmele.  Surviving are her three wonderful children; Colleen Lombardi of Gloversville, NY, Darlene (Mike) Maltese of Weedsport, NY and George (Karen) Lombardi of Fort Mill, SC. Grandchildren Michael, Corinne & Lauren Maltese, Kayla Parmele, Step Grandchildren Jamie & Brandi Chapman. Great grandchildren Sawyer Jones, Victoria Maltese, Gracin Henry and Ameilia & Elizabeth Chapman.  Two sisters - Sharon Snyder of Syracuse, NY and Jacqueline Rehman of Arizona. She also has many cousins, nieces and nephews. She was also blessed by all of her friends and the staff at Auburn Nursing Home as well as The Shirley Italiano Family and Roberta Southad.
A memorial service will be held on Wednesday, May 1st at 12n at Robert D. Gray Funeral Home, Skaneateles. Calling hours will be from 10 to 12n prior to the service. Joyce will be buried in Lake view Cemetery.
Donations can be made in memory of Dylan Lombardi Parmele and Luigi Lombardi to United Church of Phelps, 58 Main St. Phelps, NY 14532.
To send condolences, visit robertdgrayfuneralhome.com.

 

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Hugh Wilkes Hadley

4/20/2019

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A long time Skaneateles resident, Hugh Wilkes Hadley was the son of Jean Ferguson and Norman Hadley of Schenectady, NY, and eldest of their five children. He completed engineering degrees at Purdue University and Syracuse University, and was a radar engineer at General Electric and Syracuse Research Corporation. He was an active member of the Skaneateles community as a member and president of the Skaneateles School Board, member of SAVES, youth sports coach, Skaneateles Community band member, Skaneateles Library board member, and deacon and elder at Skaneateles First Presbyterian Church.
Hugh loved music. In the Purdue marching band, he earned the right to march with the 50 lb. King Jumbo sousaphone. Over the course of his life, he played sousaphone, tuba, trombone, trumpet, and bugle, as well as bagpipe in the Syracuse Kiltie Bagpipe Band and baritone in the Skaneateles Community Band. He sang with the Skaneateles First Presbyterian Church choir and the Masterworks Chorale, and anyone sitting near him in church remembers his resounding bass voice.
A voracious reader, he kept the Skaneateles librarians busy filling his book orders. He knew something about almost everything and gave freely of his gift of wide-ranging knowledge. Anyone consulting him with a question or problem would receive a well-thought out analysis of the problem, usually accompanied by a diagram and a dose of his wry humor. Hugh’s other loves were camping, skiing, farm equipment, large-scale vegetable gardening, raising livestock, and playing cribbage. Gatherings by the water with family and friends at Skaneateles Lake and Fishers Island were a constant throughout his life.
Hugh is survived by his wife of 52 years, Sandra; three children, Eric (Debora) of Evanston, Illinois, Andrew (Jennifer) of Jeffersonville, Vermont, and Gillian (Jeffrey) of Lakeview, Montana; and six grandchildren, Zoe, Ava, River, Amelia, Ivy and Emerson. He was predeceased by his brother, Andy Hadley, and is survived by his three sisters, Jeffrey Dohrenwend, Ellen Richey Woodzell, and Anne Brouillier.
A memorial service will be held at Skaneateles First Presbyterian Church on Saturday, April 27th at 11 am.  Donations in memory of Hugh may be made to Teach for America or the Skaneateles First Presbyterian Church. 
To send condolences visit: robertdgrayfuneralhome.com.


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Carlo A. DiSalvo

4/19/2019

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                       Carlo A. DiSalvo, 89
              Dedicated to family, work, community

Carlo A. DiSalvo passed away peacefully in his home, with family, on April 19th due to complications from Alzheimer’s disease.
Carlo was born in Brooklyn, NY in 1929 to the late Andrew and Mary DiSalvo.
He graduated from the Manhattan High School of Aviation Trades in 1947.  He also completed a course in General Textiles after which he worked in a clothing store.
Carlo was a naval reservist and became active duty during the Korean War, serving as a machinery repairman on the USS Vulcan. He met his future bride, Anna Abbatomarco, at a dance for servicemen sponsored by the local girls in Providence, RI. They were married in 1955. He attended Bryant University and graduated in 1956 with a Bachelor of Science degree in Accounting.  This education was the foundation of his future work in business. Carlo and Anna lived in CT and RI.
On moving to Central New York, they lived at Onondaga Hill before moving to Skaneateles in 1976 where they have resided ever since.  Here, Carlo worked as a risk manager for Crouse-Hinds, Canadian-Pacific and Agway. He was active in several professional associations and was a mentor to his younger colleagues.
Carlo’s dedication to the Skaneateles community is evidenced in over 30 years of volunteer work with SAVES where he served as president in 2001 and 2002.  He also drove for FISH, which he continued to do into his eighties. In addition, Carlo sat on the village board for ten years and was a long-time parishioner at St. Mary’s. He liked reading and was a frequent library patron.
Carlo was an industrious man and enjoyed building two of the family homes, as well as working on DIY projects and car maintenance, aptitudes he passed on to his children. He liked to joke “We don’t do much, but what we do is pretty good”. Carlo was always willing to attempt any task, accept any challenge or try to solve any problem.
He will be remembered for his patience, his sense of humor, his enduring fairness, his words of wisdom and his dedication to family, work and community.
He is predeceased by his sister Christine DelConte, his brother Jerome DiSalvo and his wife Antoinette, his brother Leonard DiSalvo, his brother-in-law and best friend Umberto Benfante, nephew Vincent Benfante and niece Mary Saulle.
He is survived by his wife of 64 years, Anna C. DiSalvo, his children Andrew DiSalvo and his wife Anita, Carol DiSalvo and her husband Jim, Catherine DiSalvo, Paul DiSalvo, his grandchildren Lindsay, Cayla, Raven, Phoebe, Lucas and Julianna. He is also survived by his sisters Frances Benfante and Mary Gray, many brothers and sisters-in-law, nieces and nephews.
Carlo will be missed and loved always.
A funeral mass will be held at 10am on Friday, May 3rd, at St. Mary’s of the Lake Church, Skaneateles followed by a luncheon reception in the Parish Center. All are welcome.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to SAVES, or a local charity of your choice. To send condolences, visit robertdgrayfuneralhome.com.

 
 

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John Irving Edwards

4/15/2019

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John Irving Edwards April 15, 2019 John Irving Edwards passed away Monday April 15, 2019 at St. Joseph's Hospital. Born in Syracuse, New York on May 20, 1933, John was a lifelong resident of Skaneateles, graduating in the class of 1951. After completing a degree in architectural drafting, he served in the Army and played in the 266th Army Band at Fort Hood, Texas. Upon his return he resumed his position at the Skaneateles Supply Company, becoming a co-owner after several years. Later, his expertise and talent for connecting with people led him to a successful sales career. John married the love of his life, Shirley Mason, in 1955, and together they chose the lot on which John built the family home that has been their residence ever since. John had many talents and interests, including building, which he learned from his father, cooking, community service, and travel. John loved engaging with people everywhere he went, and he had a heart for service to his community. He volunteered for many years as an EMT, and later as a driver, for SAVES. He also drove for the Laker Limo. John served on the vestry and sang in the choir at St. James Episcopal Church, where he was a lifelong member. He was a past master of the Masonic Lodge. For John music was a lifelong pleasure and avocation. He started playing the tuba in 7th grade. The next year, he became a member of the Auburn Civic Band, a position he held for 71 years. He also played in the Auburn Chamber orchestra for many years and the Skaneateles Community Band from its inception. John is survived by his four children Kim Edwards (Thomas Clayton) John Edwards (Cindy) Mark Teasdale-Edwards (Katherine) and Amy Wenner (James) as well as by ten grandchildren and five great-grandchildren. Also by his sisters, Rena Pasternak, Nora Brown, and Nancy Smith. He was predeceased by his brother, Herb Edwards. The family is grateful for the excellent care John received at St. Joseph's Hospital, with special thanks to the nurses and to Dr. Nishith Amin. A Funeral Mass will be offered at 10:30 Thursday April 18 in St. James Episcopal Church, Skaneateles. Burial will be in Lakeview Cemetery, Skaneateles. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to St. James Episcopal Church. Condolences may be left at www.robertdgrayfuneralhome.com
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Ruth A. Golden

4/10/2019

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Beloved Mother and Grandmother, Ruth A. Golden, 85, of Dewitt, NY died on April 10th at St. Joseph’s Hospital in Syracuse, NY following a brief illness.
A lifelong resident of Syracuse, she was a graduate of Nottingham High School and 35-year employee of Roth Bros Smelting Plant until her retirement.  She was an avid Mahjong and Scrabble Player along with being a lifelong fan of Syracuse University Sports Teams.
A fighter to the end, Ruth lived her life as a compassionate and selfless individual who was always there for her family and friends through laughter and sorrow, through good times and bad.  Most importantly was her love, adoration, mentoring and endless devotion to her 6 grandchildren; Brandon, Devin, Amanda, Erica, Christopher and Lawrence.
Ruth was predeceased by her husband, Burton A. Golden, in 1969 and sisters, Arlene Mintz and Barbara LeFevre.  She is survived by her son, Craig M. (Susan W.) Golden and daughters Mindy B. (Pat) Gray and Lee Ann Russo along with her brother Norman Gordon and sisters Rosalie Battaglia and Lynne Bartosch.
Funeral services will be at 11am on Friday, April 12th at Robert D. Gray Funeral Home, Skaneateles. Friends may visit with the family from 9 to 11am prior to the service. Burial will be private at Workman’s Circle Cemetery, Syracuse. In lieu of flowers donations can be made in Ruth’s name to MS Resources PO Box 237 East Syracuse, NY 13057 a charity she passionately supported.  
To send condolences visit: robertdgrayfuneralhome.com.

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James Sean Bundy

4/7/2019

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James Sean Bundy, 53, of Skaneateles, passed away peacefully after a long illness, Sunday April 7, 2019.
Jamie was born in Schenectady, NY the son of A. Marie Bundy and the late John F. Bundy. He resided most of his life in the Skaneateles area. Jamie was a Skaneateles High School graduate, Class of 1983. Jamie was employed as a Project Manager for 27 years at David J. Hardy Construction, East Syracuse. He loved motorcycles and enjoyed every chance he had to ride his Harley. Jamie cherished the times spent with his family and friends. He will be sadly missed.
He is survived by his loving mother, A. Marie Bundy, of Skaneateles; brother: Jeffrey (Sandra) Bundy of Bonners Ferry, ID, sisters: Kimberly Granato of Auburn, Leslie (Richard) Cifra of Syracuse, Tracy (Curtis) Bass of Jacksonville FL; six nephews and five nieces. He was predeceased by his father, John. Jamie never liked being the center of attention and per his wish’s funeral services are private and for his immediate family only.
Contributions may be made in his memory to Skaneateles Ambulance Volunteer Emergency Services (SAVES), 77 Fennell St. Skaneateles, NY 13152.
To send condolences visit: robertdgrayfuneralhome.com.

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Shirley Petersen

4/6/2019

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Obituary for Shirley Elona Petersen
January 20, 1924 - April 6, 2019 (Age 95)

Shirley Petersen passed away peacefully at the age of 95 years on April 6, 2019 in Auburn, New York. 
She was born to Chris and Mabel Knudsen on January 20, 1924 in Chicago, Illinois. She met her husband, the late Reverend Joseph Petersen, in Eau Claire, Wisconsin and was married in 1945. Together, they lived and worked abroad in Europe and from Coast to Coast, and committed their lives to each other, their family, and the Lutheran Church. 
Shirley was a remarkable woman, known and loved for her great charisma, youthful and determined spirit, service to the community, and sense of style and grace. She taught us to find joy and humor in everyday life, to dream big and believe in ourselves, and to cherish cozy times with family and friends.
She is survived by her three children: Luanne (Harry) Batschelet, Connie Martinez, and David Petersen; her grandchildren: Nicole (Oscar) Florez, Sam (Sarah) Batschelet, Natalie (Matthew) Leopold, Joseph (Michelle) Batschelet, and Matt Batschelet; and her nine great-grandchildren: Aaron, Noah, Grace, Hannah, Emma, Logan, Savi, Toby, and Chloe.
Mom, Grandma, GG Shirley is deeply loved and will be missed by all!
A funeral service is being held at Norseland Lutheran Church in Norseland, Minnesota on Saturday, April 13th at 11:00AM. Visitation will begin at the church at 10:00AM. A luncheon will follow the service and burial.
Memorials may be directed to Norseland Lutheran Church. 

 
 


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Mazie C. (O'Dell) Murray

4/4/2019

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Mazie C. (O’Dell) Murray passed away on Thursday, April 4th. Mazie was born on June 11,1927, to the late Clarence and Elsie (Seeley). Mazie graduated from Cazenovia High School on June 26,1945 then on June 28, 1945 she married the love of her life Verl J. Murray. They were happily married for 66 years. She was predeceased by Verl in 2011 and her daughter Barbara Kokosky (Richard) Oakdale, CT in 2009. She worked for Lemoyne college until her retirement. She enjoyed crocheting and knitting, especially making beautiful afghans for family and friends. She also donated dozens of lap robes for chemo and dialysis patients.
Surviving are her children, Patricia (Milicich) Richards (Robert) of Auburn, James E. (Sharon) of East Syracuse. Mazie has six grandchildren. Timothy J. Milicich Jr., Peter A. Milicich, Sara (Milicich) Zaborowski, Mark Kokosky, Ryan Murray and Kelly (Kokosky) Pennell. She also has 7 great-grandchildren and many nieces and nephews. Special gratitude needs to be given to her grandson Tim and his partner Aladdin (Blaine) Burks for their exceptional caregiving for Mazie these last few months. There will be no calling hours. Burial will be private and at the convenience of the family. To send condolences visit: robertdgrayfuneralhome.com.

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