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Larry Nate Loveless

9/28/2021

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Larry Nate Loveless told his final tale early in the morning of September 28, 2021. A true “townie”, Larry was born on November 21, 1943, and was brought up on the rough and tumble streets of Skaneateles, where he raised hell for nearly eight decades. He was a 1961 graduate of Skaneateles High School, which continued to haunt his children as they all passed through the same hallway’s years later. Larry was described in the yearbook as “promising…droll…dexterous”, which really did describe him accurately.
After graduation Larry embarked upon his college education at Paul Smith’s College in the Adirondacks, with hopes of spending more time hunting and fishing than actually in class. Much to everyone’s surprise he caught the greatest trophy of his life, Jan Paula Prentiss, who one night needed a ride home and Larry was lucky enough to have a car. He somehow convinced her to become his wife and the two of them enjoyed 47 years of wonderful, and sometimes questionable, adventures together until Jan’s passing in 2010.
Larry was the third generation Proprietor and “chief cook and bottle washer” at The Krebs Restaurant in Skaneateles, which he operated side-by-side with Jan until his retirement in 2010. He was often spotted running around town in his chef whites or spinning tales at the end of the bar with a cold Budweiser in his hand. Larry claimed he never worked a day in his life because he loved his job so much, however there were many witnesses to the contrary whenever a dish hit the ground.
When not at the restaurant Larry had a true zest for life. He was an unflappable life-long fan of the New York Yankees, the Montreal Canadians, and the Green Bay Packers. If you still owe him a few dollars from one of your bets, go buy yourself a beer. If he owes you, he’ll tell you that you should have collected sooner.
Larry’s family and friends are left knowing that at some point you were all characters in one of his many stories, all of which are mostly true. He also personified the phrase “open door policy” and it didn’t matter if you had lint in your pocket or a billion dollars in the bank. He truly enjoyed entertaining you all. Larry held court in many locations throughout his time with us. Some of his favorites include poolside with his beloved crew in Aruba, the Skaneateles American Legion, The Ukrainian National Club (even though nobody in the family claims to be Ukrainian), Fishin’ Magician Charters in Sodus Bay, the mountains of Montana, Skate Creek Hunt Club, his very own Humidor Hill Rod & Gun Club, around his table for Thursday night pitch, and of course up in Bear Swamp at The Colonial Lodge, Snyder’s Barn, or Camp Pee-Wee. In his absence someone will need to take over beer can and garbage pickup on the Ridge Road.
Larry and Jan both enjoyed giving back to the community. They supported and were deeply involved in many local programs including the Skaneateles Christmas Baskets, Youth Hockey, the Sons of the American Legion, the Skaneateles Fireman’s Field Days, and so many more that his kids have completely lost track. At the very least he made his famous cheese and macaroni (in that order) for any event at a moment’s notice.
Larry was also a member of the Skaneateles Masonic Lodge 522 and has served many duties for the Masonic fraternity throughout the years. These include Past Master of the Skaneateles Masonic Lodge, Past Patron of the Skaneateles Order of the Eastern Star, District Deputy of the Second Onondaga District, Past Director of the Syracuse Royal Order of the Jesters, Past High Priest of the Charles H. Platt Royal Order of the Jesters, and a member of the Tigers Shrine. If you happen to stop by to grab ice from his still operating Krebs ice machine, don’t forget to drop a dollar or two in the bucket for the Shriner’s Children’s Hospital.
Larry leaves behind his three children, Lori (Glenn) Gray of New Orleans, LA; Kim (Steve) Seabury of Old Chatham, NY; Frederic (Racheal) of Newark Valley, NY. He is also survived by his six adoring grandchildren who he loved to brag about as long as they didn’t abuse his golf cart. Bryce (Deanna) and Killian (Lindsey) Gray, Maris and Baden Seabury, and Lily (Jack) and Erich Loveless. He also leaves behind his lifelong sidekick, Richard Snyder and his family. He was predeceased by the love of his life, Jan, as well as Laura L. Loveless (mother), Elnathan J. Loveless (father), Frederic W. Perkins (Uncle), Eloise B. Perkins (Aunt), and his faithful Aruba beer cooler, Coleman.
Services will be private, however a celebration of Larry’s Last Call will be planned at a later date, as one last opportunity for Larry to buy you a drink and serve you a fine meal.
In lieu of flowers contributions can be made to either the Shriners Children’s Hospital (https://www.shrinerschildrens.org) or the Masonic Medical Research Institute (https://mmri.edu).
To send condolences, visit robertdgrayfuneralhome.com.

 
 

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Richard Allen (Dick) Adams

9/21/2021

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Richard Allen (Dick) Adams passed away at his home in Skaneateles NY on September 21st, 2021. Born in 1929 to T. Virgil Adams and Catherine (Batz) Adams in Reading, PA. Dick grew up in Reading, where he found the love of his life and wife of 58 years, the late Beth Adele Merget.
Dick was educated at Reading High School and Albright College.  During the mid-1950’s, he served in the US Army as a special agent in the Counterintelligence Corps. After his military service, Dick worked in publishing with Doubleday for the majority of his career. 
Dick was a serious gardener. His Japanese style garden was visited by the National Conifer Society and the Master Gardener group from Cornell University. He was a voracious reader of military and political history and loved jazz from Bix to Bird. He was a lifelong fan of the Baltimore Orioles and Baltimore Colts, switching his allegiances to the Buffalo Bills upon the Colts departure from Baltimore. 
Affectionately known as Pappy, he and Beth cherished the time spent with their family at their home in Skaneateles. 
Dick was preceded in death by his wife Beth and his son John Preston (Holly) and Son in law Patric Allen. He is survived by his children, Sallie Allen, of Pasadena, CA, Andrew (Mary Margaret), of Skaneateles, Amy (Jeff) Rich, of Minneapolis, MN and Arben (Maureen) Adams of Catonsville, MD, and his 17 Grandchildren and 11 great grandchildren.
Services will be private.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Central New York Food Bank at foodbankcny.org, or Hospice of Central New York, hospicecny.org.
To send condolences, visit robertdgrayfuneralhome.com.

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Clayton H. Theisen

9/19/2021

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Clayton H. Theisen died on September 19th at the age of 101.  Clayt was predeceased by his wife Marjorie Ferren Theisen and his grandson David Lee Hardy. 
Clayt is survived by his daughters Lucille Erlenback (Robert) and Janice Hardy; grandchildren Shelby Erlenback, Paula Sharkey (Rich), Robert Erlenback, Nicholas Hardy (Kate), and Denise Yakutchik (Mike); and great grandchildren Aaron Sharkey, Lyla Sharkey, Amelia Yakutchik, Dacks Hardy, and Hannah Yakutchik  
Clayt was the owner of Geddes Oil Co., and Lakeland Garage, and sold Ski Doos, Sea Doos, and Winnebago motorhomes.  Clayt was past President of the Solvay Geddes Lions Club and enjoyed hunting with his friends and going on Winnebago camp outs.

Calling hour will be held on Thursday, September 23rd from 10 to 11 am with a service to follow at the United Methodist Church, Skaneateles. Burial in Lake View Cemetery, Skaneateles.
In lieu of flowers
 donations can be made to Skaneateles Lake Association Stewardship Program. 
To send condolences, visit robertdgrayfuneralhome.com.

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Josephine Kane Wood

9/16/2021

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Josephine Kane Wood passed away peacefully on September 16, 2021, at the age of 86, with her husband Graham by her side.  Joelle was born and raised in Syracuse, the daughter of Margaret (Maher) and Howard W. Kane. She attended Goodyear Burlingame School, graduating from Westover School, CT and Rosemont College, PA.
While she had known Graham all her life, it wasn’t until college that they fell in love and were married in June 1958. Together they built a wonderful life together, full of love and laughs, fun with friends and joyous times with family.
Joelle’s many interests included creating beautiful gardens, traveling the world with family and friends, watercolor painting, tennis, paddle tennis and skiing.  In tennis, she  was known to be a real threat at the net.  She competed nationally as an amateur in many tournaments, although her favorite tennis was on the courts at the Cazenovia Club, where she won her last tournament at the age of 80.
She volunteered at the Francis House hospice, for over 20 years, was a breast cancer survivor and mentor for the American Cancer Society, as well as a past board member of the Erie Canal Museum.  She was also a past member of the Junior League of Syracuse, the Francis House Auxiliary, the Four Seasons Garden Club, Syracuse Garden Club, Cazenovia Club, Cazenovia Ski Club, and the Coral Beach & Tennis Club, Bermuda.
Joelle’s greatest joy came from spending time with her friends and family, with family trips holding a special place in her heart.  She is survived by her husband and best friend Graham W. Wood, daughters Susan Holliday and Margaret (Terry) Holleran, son in law, Martin F. Holleran III, and grandchildren, Megan DeJonge (Austin), Ryan Holliday, Bradley Holliday, Shane Holleran, and her brother Edward M. Kane.  Joelle’s brother Howard W. Kane Jr. predeceased her.
Alzheimer's presents a series of increasingly tough challenges for any family. Over the last several years, Joelle and Graham faced the challenges of this disease, together, with love, as they have everything in their 63 years of marriage.  Our hope is that with awareness, education and research people will better understand the disease, how to support those with it, and how to reduce personal risk.  Please consider supporting the Alzheimer's Association of CNY.  The family will have a private funeral service and would like to thank everyone for their support.


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Marion Garlock Hambrecht

9/16/2021

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Marion Hambrecht, nee Garlock, passed away on September 16, 2021, at the age of 96 of natural causes at Hospice of Cincinnati.
She was born September 8, 1925, at her grandparents’ house in Mohawk, New York. She grew up in Syracuse, NY, attended Onondaga Valley Academy High School and earned a bachelor’s degree in Nutrition from Syracuse University graduating in 1945.
            Marion was a “Rosie the Riveter,” engaged in wartime production during World War II.  She was proud to be part of the greatest generation, and proud too of her brothers, Jack and Bob.  As bombardier and pilot respectively, they flew combat missions in B-24 bombers during WW II; Bob with the 15th AAF in North Africa, and Europe, and Jack with the 5th AAF in the Pacific.  Both returned home safely.
Following college, Marion wed George Hambrecht.  She supported her husband through music school and helped him launch his professional career as a concert musician. They settled in Cincinnati with their four children, when George became principal flutist in the Cincinnati Symphony Orchestra. Marion herself was an accomplished church organist as a young woman.
Ever the independent, she carved a path as a single mother at a time when it was most difficult to do so.  In the wake of a separation and divorce Marion commenced her career at the University of Cincinnati to support her family. She spent more than two decades at U. C. making contributions to many departments.  Her favorite roll was that of administrative assistant to the Dean of the College of Education.  Here she was frequently thanked for the significant impacts she made on the lives and academic careers of countless students, especially those studying from abroad, as she assisted them to navigate the complexity and bureaucracy of a large institution.
Though a single parent, she found ways to support all of her children in their pursuit of higher education.  After retiring from the University of Cincinnati, Marion moved to Philadelphia to live with her eldest son Larry and his wife Donna Perone, and supported them during their graduate studies.  Larry earned his law degree and Donna earned her PhD in Psychology.
Her next adventure was to return to her childhood roots and spend the next 20 years in Skaneateles, New York.  She lived her remaining years with family in Cincinnati.
Marion was intensely curious and was attentive to the news and current events.  She enjoyed reading the New York Times, National Geographic, and Time magazine among others.  She loved to engage in conversation and her favorite topic was to speak of her children. She never met a stranger and was welcoming to all.
Her love of music transcended the ages from the classics to contemporary.  She would sing, dance, and keep time with all from Beethoven to the Beatles, Pavarotti, Lawrence Welk, and Willie Nelson.
Other joys included traveling and visiting historic sites.  She enjoyed various cuisines and was a marvelous cook in her own right.  She was a staunch supporter of the arts enjoying the symphony, ballet, and museums of all kinds. 
Above all, she enjoyed time with, and reliving memories, of family, friends, and pets.  She would recall Sunday dinners at home while growing up, summers at the cabin on Otter Lake and visiting Old Forge in the Adirondacks.  She was quick to share memories of her siblings, and also her pets, most notably her favorite feline companion of 23 ½ years.
Marion is the last of her generation in her family. She was predeceased by her former husband, George R. Hambrecht, her father, John H. Garlock, her mother, Clara Day Garlock, her brothers and sisters-in-law, Jack C. Garlock (Rusty), Robert H. Garlock (Pat), her sister and brother-in-law, Bernice L. Klosowski (Frank) and also her daughter-in-law Donna Perone.
Marion is survived by her children; Larry Hambrecht of Philadelphia, PA, Robert Hambrecht (Donna Cheng) of NY, NY, John Hambrecht of Des Moines, IA, Jane Edgar (Rob) of Cincinnati, OH; grandsons Jeff Hambrecht of Phoenix, AZ and Sam Hambrecht of Burbank, CA, great grandchildren Breklin and Axel Hambrecht of Phoenix, AZ and many nephews and nieces and their children.
Funeral Service will be held in Cincinnati on Saturday, October 9, 2021, at 2:00 pm at Knox Presbyterian Church, 3400 Michigan Ave, Cincinnati, OH  45208.
Funeral Service will also be held on Friday, October 15, 2021, at 11:00 am at First Presbyterian Church, 97 East Genesee Street, Skaneateles, NY 13152.
Burial service will be held Saturday, October 16, 2021, at Noon at Highland Rural Cemetery in Jordanville, NY.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to:
Ohio Valley Alley Cats, 5619 Orlando Pl., Cincinnati, OH 45227,
Rescue Mission P.O. Box 11122, Syracuse, NY 13218-9903, or
WCNY The Public Broadcast Council of Central NY, Inc.  P.O. Box 2400 Syracuse, NY 13220-2400
Family and friends are welcome to come celebrate Marion’s life and legacy. 
To send condolences, visit robertdgrayfuneralhome.com.

 
 

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Barbara Beardsley Evans

9/15/2021

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Barbara Beardsley Evans
June 23, 1926 – September 15, 2021

Barbara, 95, grew up in Batavia, New York graduating from Batavia High School in 1944.  She went on to receive her BA of Arts Degree at Mount Holyoke College in 1948 and her Master’s Degree in Student Personnel Administration in 1951 from Cornell University.
 As a resident of Skaneateles for 66 years and Finger Lakes Center for the Living for the past five years, she served the Skaneateles community in many varied activities.  She was the second President and one of the organizers of the Skaneateles Nursery School.  She served as President of the Skaneateles Elementary Parent Teacher Club, co-chairman of the school bond issue drive for the building of the Belle Waterman School and the Middle School, served five years on the Skaneateles Board of Education, and was a girl scout leader for nine years.
 A very avid reader, Barbara was a long-time member of both the Monday Evening and Wednesday Book Clubs.  She was also a member of the Sarah Circle at the First Presbyterian Church of Skaneateles.  She and her husband Stuart “Stu” were long time members of the Skaneateles Country Club. 
 Barbara loved to visit with her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.   She enjoyed lunches with her friends and spending afternoons at the Country Club in the summer.
 Barbara is survived by her three children, Linda (Ken) Bihl, Peter (Pamela) Evans, and James (Linda) Evans.  She was predeceased by her husband of 60 years, W. Stuart Evans. She also is survived by eight grandchildren and four great-grandchildren.
 Calling hours will be Saturday, October 30th at 9am at Robert D. Gray Funeral Home, Skaneateles, with a Celebration of Life service immediately following at 10am. Private family burial following service.
 Contributions may be made to the Skaneateles Historical Society or the Skaneateles Library Association.
To send condolences, visit robertdgrayfuneralhome.com.

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Edward S. Little

9/5/2021

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Edward S. Little died September 5, 2021, at the age of 81.  He was a Syracuse area resident for all of his life, spending the last 20 years in Skaneateles.  He graduated from Cheshire Academy and went on to earn his bachelor’s degree in Economics from Columbia University, and his Master of Business Administration from Syracuse University.
Ed was a booming figure whose presence was always felt, he lit up a room with his humor and wit.  He was a dedicated husband, father, and friend, often reaching out with advice and perspective with compassion.  He led by example and embodied a strong work ethic and moral code.  He was a pillar in his community, a devout Catholic and regularly participated in and gave to charities and causes that he believed in.  Ed was a tackle on the Columbia football team which won the only Ivy-League championship for his school in 1962.  The friendships he fostered with his teammates and throughout his life have brought him deep joy and camaraderie over the years.  
He began his career in the pharmaceutical industry and quickly became a highly accomplished entrepreneur, starting his own marketing research company.  He always supported his wife and family in their endeavors in writing and publishing books, starting dotcoms and outdoor sports companies.  Ed enjoyed an early retirement and maintained a home in Skaneateles while wintering initially in Scottsdale, Arizona, and then Lakewood Ranch, Florida. He found communities and friendships wherever he went, he was an accomplished artist, played golf often, and traveled extensively.
     He was predeceased by his wife of 49 years, Jill; and survived by his son Bill Little (and wife Margaret, grandsons Webb, Sam, and Jack); daughters Deanna Mitzen (and grandchildren Emily, Nick, and Grace), and Kelly Arroyo (and husband Manuel, grandchildren August, Ella, and Magnus).  He is also survived by his sisters Nancy Boynton and Mary Davitt and several nieces and nephews.
    A funeral Mass will be offered at 10am on Saturday, September 11th in St. Mary’s of the Lake Church, Skaneateles. A luncheon will be held at The Sherwood Inn, gathering friends and family, following the services.
In lieu of gifts or flowers, the family would appreciate your donations to Catholic Charities in Edward Little’s name c/o St. Mary’s of the Lake Church.
To send condolences, visit robertdgrayfuneralhome.com.


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Virginia A. Watson

9/5/2021

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Virginia A. Watson, 97 of Amarillo, TX, passed away peacefully at home. A graveside service will be held on Wednesday, Sept. 15th at 11am at Lakeview Cemetery, Skaneateles. 
To send condolences, visit robertdgrayfuneralhome.com.

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Susan Lapham Spalding

9/3/2021

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On Friday, September 3, 2021, Susan Lapham Spalding passed away at the age of 85.  Susan Millen Lapham was born in Syracuse, New York on October 12, 1935. She grew up in Syracuse and then attended the Westover School in Middlebury, Connecticut, graduating in 1953.  Her family moved to Skaneateles, NY in 1953.  Sue attended Smith College graduating in 1957 with a Bachelor of Arts in History. She married Joseph Wilcox Spalding II on September 21, 1957.  Together they traveled to Brazil where Joseph (Joe) was working as a geologist. They returned to Skaneateles in 1958 where they raised their three sons.

In Skaneateles, Susan volunteered on many causes serving on the Boards of the Junior League of Syracuse and Planned Parenthood, and was President of the Skaneateles Jaycettes. In 1975, Susan earned her Masters of Arts in Education from SUNY-Cortland and began her career as a Social Studies Teacher in Skaneateles High School.  She taught a generation of Skaneateles students, especially proud of her Model UN program, before retiring. Susan continued with her volunteer work with the St. James Church Altar Guild, Skaneateles Historical Society and Laker Limo driver.  Sue was also a passionate historian for the Creamery, dedicating much of her time to creating rich historical records of the deep boating tradition on and around Skaneateles Lake. She cultivated beautiful flower gardens and enjoyed her bridge, golf leagues and book clubs, always keeping busy.   

Joe and Sue traveled extensively in their later years, taking trips to the UK, Ireland, France, Alaska, Brazil, and other interesting cruises. They also journeyed on their own excursions on the boat Joe built (the Samuel Clyde) and took lengthy road trips around the country visiting friends and family. 

Susan was predeceased by her husband Joseph (Sept 2, 2021). She is survived by her sons Curtis (m. Patrice Milos), Joseph (m. Irene Gonin) and William (m. Molly Newlin) and Grandchildren Henry, Hannah, Alexander, Nicholas, Victoria, Lisa and Evan.  
Calling hours will be held Thursday, September 9th from 5-7pm at Robert D. Gray Funeral Home, Skaneateles. Funeral Service will be held at St James Church, Skaneateles on Friday, September 10th at 10am, burial will be in Lakeview Cemetery.
 In lieu of flowers please make a donation to St. James Church or the Skaneateles Historical Society.
To send condolences, visit robertdgrayfuneralhome.com.


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Joseph Wilcox Spalding, II

9/2/2021

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On Thursday, September 2, 2021, Joseph Wilcox Spalding II, loving husband and father of three children, passed away at the age of 87.  Joe was born in Waterbury, Connecticut on May 16, 1934. He spent his childhood in Watertown, Connecticut, visiting Skaneateles in the summers.  He graduated from the Taft School, Watertown, CT in 1952 and Columbia College in 1956 with a BA in Geology.  After college he worked as a geologist from 1957-58 in Northern Brazil returning briefly in September 1957 to marry Susan Lapham whence, they both returned to Brazil. They then moved to Skaneateles and raised three boys in a place so special to him. 

Joe worked as a sales engineer in heating and ventilation in Syracuse and selling prefabricated commercial buildings in Oswego for several years before founding Upstate Temperature Control in 1975. In the 1970’s Joe was a leading figure at the Skaneateles Ski Club installing the first snowmaking system and as a fixture on the Ski Patrol. He was a past Commodore of the Skaneateles Country Club, most notably running several Lightning class anniversary regattas and instilling his deep love of sailing in his boys. He was a member of St. James Vestry, drove the SAVES Rescue and served on the Skaneateles School Board for many years.  

Joe so loved living on Skaneateles Lake which inspired him to write his column “On the Lakeshore” for the Skaneateles Press.  The ducks and other wildlife he saw, the adventures of his beagles, children, and grandchildren, children, and grandchildren were frequent topics.  He enjoyed wooden boats, restoring several and building new ones. His favorites were the Thunderbird class sloop Dragon fire and the Samuel Clyde, his custom canal cruiser.  He actively curated the boat collection at the Skaneateles Historical Society. Joe and Sue traveled extensively in their later years, taking trips to the UK, Ireland, France, Alaska, Brazil, other interesting cruises, their own excursions on the Samuel Clyde and lengthy road trips around the country visiting friends and family. 

Joe is survived by his wife Susan (Lapham), sons Curtis (m. Patrice Milos), Joseph (m. Irene Gonin) and William (m. Molly Newlin) and Grandchildren Henry, Hannah, Alexander, Nicholas, Victoria, Lisa and Evan.  

Calling hours will be held Thursday, September 9th from5-7pm at Robert D. Gray Funeral Home, Skaneateles. Funeral Service will be held at St James Church, Skaneateles on Friday, September 10th at 10am, burial will be in Lakeview Cemetery.
In Lieu of flowers please make a donation to St. James Church or the Skaneateles Historical Society.
To send condolences, visit robertdgrayfuneralhome.com.

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