Patricia M. Riley

9/11/2019

Patricia M. Riley, 78, passed away on September 11th at her home in Auburn, NY, surrounded by the love of her family.
Patricia was predeceased by her partner of many years Rodney J. Clarke.
Surviving are her children; William Valletta Jr., Patsy Ast (Stephen), Mark Valletta (Tracy), Stacy Benesch (Steve) and Scott Clarke (Michelle) and Sean Clarke. Several grandchildren and great grandchildren. All of whom were the joy of her life. Services are private. In lieu of flowers, the greatest gift to our mother would be to spend the day with those you cherish, your loved ones, family and friends, as that is what was most precious to her. To send condolences, visit robertdgrayfuneralhome.com.

22 Comments

Michael Lawrence

9/14/2019 05:33:37 am

You were always a good friend and not just a client. I'm going to miss you.

Megan Senior

9/14/2019 09:14:46 am

Such a sweet woman! You will be greatly missed!

Gwen Holbein

9/14/2019 05:17:35 pm

She was a very special lady indeed. Spent many an afternoon with her after I lost Moose. I never thanked her enough. A beautiful soul and I am so sorry she is gone. She loved you kids so. RIP

Stacy Benesch

9/16/2019 12:54:59 am

Thanks Gwen....she loved you too my friend always.

Terry Hole

9/14/2019 06:28:53 pm

I'm so sorry to hear about her passing, my condolences to all of your family and friends.

Mrs. V, you have always been one of the coolest neighbors and friend of my parents and family over all the years. I will personally miss chatting with you, your advice and friendship whenever I came back home. Lots of great memories and stories, you will be extremely missed.

Stacy Benesch

9/16/2019 07:11:46 am

Thank you Terry....She often spoke of having neighbors for some 50 years and never a squabble, even with all us kids...
That's good people my friend.

Karen Green-Hoyt

9/15/2019 03:41:34 am

I was so sad to learn of Pat's passing...my sincerest condolences to her family. It was nice to see her this Summer... knocking on my door with her contagious smile and a few hours of reminiscing of motorcycling adventures, our pets, her work and most of all - the obvious love and pride of her family. RIP, Pat...you left this world a better place.

Stavy Benesch

9/16/2019 12:56:51 am

Thank you Karen....I agree she did try to make a better place. She do enjoyed her visit with you and mentioned it several times.

Dawn & Kevin Giannone

9/15/2019 10:04:20 am

My condolences to Bill, Patsy, Stacey, Mark for the loss of your mom! She will be missed! I loved the times we were are your house after school, she was a lot of fun. And she could talk! I remember running into her and having a lengthy conversation about my kids and her grandchildren and the school, in the pet store! lol So sorry for your loss. Lots of love during this time!

Bob & Anne Guzman

9/15/2019 03:54:56 pm

To Pat's Family and many friends,
Our most sincere condolences to all.
The "in lieu of flowers" suggestion is a perfect representation of Pat.
When our family is lucky enough to again be together we will include Pat in our prayer and thoughts.
With affection and respect.
Bob and Anne
Elmira

Stacy Benesch

9/16/2019 12:53:05 am

Thank you Mr. & Mrs. Guzman.
She always enjoyed seeing the two of you.

Debbie sprague

9/15/2019 04:56:56 pm

Years since I have seen your family, but I am very sorry for your loss. Thinking of your family. Thankyou for being a piece of my life.

Sandra Wells

9/15/2019 08:42:01 pm

Im so sorry for your loss

Joseph A. Burke Jr.

9/16/2019 07:30:05 am

Patricia is an absolutely wonderful person and co-worker that I love and respect. She is well-verse on many topics and live and loved life to the fullest. She will always be missed on earth, but always in my heart. God bless her and the family for all of the joy they they have bought to all....especially me!!!

Mary P.

9/16/2019 02:50:01 pm

I'm so sorry to hear about the passing of such a lovely lady. I worked with Pat at the DOL in the 90s. We ran into each other now and again She was really nice.... intelligent, witty, and fun to converse with! We covered so many subjects whenever we ran into each other.
The world has truly lost a rare pearl and now the heavens have her!!! My condolences to her partner Rodney and family.... words are inadequate at this time but, I hope the comfort of family and friends can help you through this difficult time of loss. May she rest in peace.
Sincerely, Mary P.

Patricia Avery

9/16/2019 05:49:01 pm

I also had the opportunity to know Pat through work at the Department of Labor years ago. She made a difference just with her presence
Sorry to hear of her passing.

Cherl Heary

9/17/2019 07:20:39 am

I am so sorry to hear about Pat. We have not seen each other for several years, but spent a lot of time on (Republican Concerns) over the years. She was delightful and always helped get those petitions in no matter what. She was truly a great person. I will remember her always.

Suzanne Beth Rhone-Redmond

9/17/2019 07:55:54 am

I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. Your Mom was someone you never forget! She was sassy, opinionated, and outspoken on issues that concerned her. She was dedicated to her work, politics but most importantly, her family. There was never a time when we spoke that she didn't give me the full run down on what everyone was up to in the family. She will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Amy and Tim Holbein

9/17/2019 02:12:16 pm

Pat was one of a kind lady! She will be in the hearts of so so many people and we will miss her for she would do anything for you to help. I am gonna be missing her and Rod,they will be together.North Rd.is not the same...RIP and to the family our deepest feelings for this loss of a WONDERFUL LIFE.
Your mother Pat was like a second MOM to me,my fondest memories around the kitchen table and the best lasagna ever!! All the happy chatter,the door always open,your mom's Kind and beautiful face,her intelligence and quick wit. And always helping others!! Your friend always , Amy

Laurel Auchampaugh

9/20/2019 05:03:02 am

Dear family. Back from Kentucky. Jan and I send our heartfelt love and care. Contact me if we are included in private service for my 50 year friend.

Ginger

4/7/2020 04:29:09 pm

The last time I saw Pat she was telling me about job hunting in the south and her recent adventures.I told her to get retired and get out of the office and really enjoy life..I saw this obituary and still think of her every time I pass the college and wonder if she ever got around to retiring.What a great lady! She's missed more than you will ever know,she helped so many!

Patrice Reginelli

6/7/2020 06:15:10 pm

From the moment I met Pat at the Employment Center, we were instantly the closest of friends. I adored her and she also showed me so much true compassion and understanding; and I believe that I will never have a truer friend , ever. I will forever miss her. I miss her words of knowledge, as if there was nothing that she did not understand. I can say that I never wanted to leave her side ,every chance I got to sit and talk with her. , We laughed together, and we cried together......I wish I could speak to her one more time. If anyone of her children would reach out to me, Id really appreciate that, as I miss her every day. 567-3185. 12 Bristol Ave Auburn NY 13021. I am so very sad about her .

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