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Kenneth Ray Scouten

3/12/2024

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                 Kenneth Ray Scouten passed away peacefully surrounded by his family on March 12, 2024, at the age of 84. Ray was born and raised in Old Forge, NY to the late Oliver Patrick and Edna Scouten.
                He is survived by his loving and devoted wife and “best buddy”, Teresa Scouten, of 62 years, his son, Carl R. Scouten (Lisa), four grandchildren: Carl M. Scouten (Lindsey), Paul Scouten (Danna), Mary Tamburri (Michael) and Andrew Scouten, and one great grandchild, Christopher. Ray is predeceased by his son, Mark Scouten.
                After graduating from Town of Webb School in Old Forge, with a graduating class of 13 students, Ray attended Colgate University where he studied English and was a member of the marching band. Having a desire to pursue higher education, Ray received his Master’s Degree in English from Syracuse University. He went on to become a dedicated college professor at Norwich University in Vermont and then spent almost his entire 30-year teaching career at Cayuga Community College in Auburn, NY. Ray taught English Literature, World Literature and Public Speaking, and was known for his tough grading and passion for proper grammar.
    During Ray’s tenure as a college professor, he participated in several research sabbaticals, including a year-long study of author Flannery O’Connor. He was selected as one of only a handful of scholars to study in O’Connor’s private library in Milledgeville, Georgia. He also was the lead contract negotiator for New York State’s Teachers’ Union for many years, serving as a fierce advocate for pensions and health insurance.
     Ray was also a leader in his family, always providing direction, encouragement and support. He emphasized the importance of education to his children and grandchildren, often serving as the family’s “student advisor”. He’d greet his grandchildren with his famous line, “so what’s up with you!”, excited to hear of their recent academic and personal accomplishments. Due to his dedication to academia, all of his children and adult grandchildren are college graduates.
                   Most importantly, Ray shared 62 years with the love of his life, best friend and confidant, Teresa. Ray and Terry spent their lives together as residents of Skaneateles, NY. They loved bird watching and traveling around the US and Canada to see their favorite Shakespearean plays. Ray was also an avid reader, and as his son, Carl, would say, has read at least three quarters of the Skaneateles Library.
Finally, Ray was a devoted Cleveland Browns fan. His family can thank Ray’s father, O.P., for passing down the love and misery Cleveland Browns’ fans share. Each year, Ray and his family would travel to a Browns game. The Scoutens are now five generations of Browns fans and are hopeful “this year is our year” with Ray watching over them!
                                                There will be a service held at St. Mary’s of the Lake Church in Skaneateles, NY on Wednesday, March 20, 2024 at 10:00am, on the 30th anniversary of the passing of Ray and Teresa’s son, Mark. In lieu of flowers, Ray’s family asks for contributions to a charity of your choice.
To send condolences, visit: robertdgrayfuneralhome.com.

 
 

 

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Michael and Michele Fleszar Glancy
3/15/2024 10:55:15 am

The Scouten Family,
We are very sorry to hear of Ray’s passing. We will miss seeing him and catching up at all the grandchildren’s wedding. Thinking of all of you and sending prayers.
Love, Mike,Michele and Iain

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Chris Strodel
3/16/2024 09:27:24 am

Teresa,
Sending our condolences on the passing of your husband from this life to the next. Thinking of you at this time, miss our days together at the Y when we’d regularly see each other!
Will always remember seeing your husband walking briskly through town over the years.
62 years together, what a life shared and dedicated to each other!
Praying for you and your family.

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Peggy Brown
3/17/2024 11:38:21 am

Teresa, I am so sorry to read of the passing of your wonderful husband. You certainly have been a couple that I just loved to visit with and how much you enjoyed your children and grandchildren. What a super example you are to all. We are sending our prayers and many hugs to all. So very sad.

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