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John "Jack" G. Butler, Jr.

10/19/2019

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John “Jack” G. Butler, Jr., 77, of Skaneateles passed away on October 19th at Francis House surrounded by his family. A loving husband, adoring father, and kind-hearted Irishman, he was born on February 20, 1942 in Syracuse, the eldest child of the late John G. Butler and Jane Burns Butler. John was a proud veteran of the U.S. Air Force, serving in Aviano, Italy. He was a 1965 graduate of Simmons School of Mortuary Science, a licensed funeral director, and a retired sergeant from the Onondaga County Sheriff’s Department, having served the department for over 30 years.  
John was a gregarious, kind, and generous man who loved people and could strike up a conversation with a stranger in a matter of minutes. His life’s motto, a poem borrowed from the Girl Scouts, was “Make new friends, but keep the old, for one is silver and the other gold.” He aimed to bring a smile to anyone who crossed his path because he always said, “you never know what kind of day someone is having”. Whether he was giving out candy bars to the veterans, adorning the graves of family, friends and colleagues to keep their memory alive, or helping a friend through hard times, he touched the lives of so many. A true gentleman, and an Irishman to the core, John treasured the moments when he could share a smile and a story with all those whom he had the good fortune to meet.
Proud of his heritage, he was a devoted member of the Cavalry Club and served on the Troop D Veterans Board of Directors for many years. He also served as a member and former President of the Deputy Sheriff’s Benevolent Association. He was an active member and past president of the Central New York Funeral Directors Association, a member of the New York State Funeral Directors Association, Fraternal Order of Police, Irish Cultural Society of Central New York, American Legion Post #239 Skaneateles, U.S. Coast Guard Auxiliary, New York Guard, Ancient Order of Hibernians, a 40-year member of the Masonic Lodge No. 501 Liverpool, a life member of the Tigris Shrine, Central City Commandery, Central City Riverside Royal Arch Masons, 32nd degree Scottish Rite Valley of Syracuse, Central City Cryptic Council, Masonic War Veterans, Skaneateles Masonic Lodge #522, and the Skaneateles Rod & Gun Club.   
 
John will be greatly missed and is survived by his wife of 54 years, Barbara (Comstock); three children, Stacy Drake (Dale), John G. Butler, III (Christa), and Jennifer Grippa (Chris); five grandchildren, Michael, Patrick, Hannah Jane, Chase, and Carson; three step grandchildren, Alex, Matthew, and Christopher; his sister Anna Janet Maloney-Brobst (Bernie) of Florida; his brothers Anders Butler (Deborah) of Syracuse, J. Langley Butler (Eileen) of Virginia, William Butler of Massachusetts; and many nieces, nephews, and cousins.
Calling hours will be held on Friday, October 25th from 4 to 8pm at Robert D. Gray Funeral Home, Skaneateles, with a Masonic Service at 7:45pm. Funeral services will be held at St. Mary’s of the Lake Catholic Church, Skaneateles on Saturday, October 26th at 10:00am with a private burial to follow at Lakeview Cemetery. Following the services at 1:00pm, family and friends will gather at John’s favorite spot, the Cavalry Club, Troop K Road, Manlius to toast to his life and honor his memory. In lieu of flowers, contributions in John’s name can be made to Francis House, 108 Michaels Ave., Syracuse, NY 13208 or SAVES Ambulance of Skaneateles, or any of the organizations that John loved and supported.
The family would like to thank the talented and caring physicians and nurses at St. Joseph’s Hospital in Syracuse, all of whom worked hard to care for John and prolong his life, and to the caregivers and volunteers at Francis House who gave him the very best last days of a full and rich life.
To send condolences, visit robertdgrayfuneralhome.com.
 

 

26 Comments
Sandra
10/21/2019 12:08:12 pm

Dear Barb, Stacey and Jenny.
We are so sorry for your loss.
With deepest sympathy.
The Schmidt Family

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Ronald Coir
10/21/2019 12:53:07 pm

Bubba was a great and true friend. Condolences to Barb and the family. He will be missed and remembered forever. We are so sorry for your loss. With deepest sympathy, his masonic brother - Ron Coir

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David Stevenson, T/Capt. (Ret) OCSO
10/21/2019 03:16:59 pm

God's speed Jack Butler; thank you for your years of service to the community, the Sheriff's Office, Masonry & many concordant bodies, Shriners and Scottish Rite to name but two. May your children and especially bride of 54 years know peace in having had you as father and husband. RIP Jack.

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James Ennis
10/21/2019 03:54:30 pm

To the Family and Friends of Jack:

We are so very sorry for your loss. Jack was one of a kind and we feel so fortunate to have known him. We pray that you find peace in knowing he is not suffering any longer.

We join in extending our sincere heartfelt sympathy to you and your family during this most difficult time. May happier memories help to sustain you and bring you comfort through this period of sorrow.

With Love and Prayers,

James Ennis (Cavalry Club)
& Sandra Winkworth

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Debbie sprague
10/21/2019 04:09:39 pm

Dear butler family. Thankyou for the many years of being neighbors. Memories of Mr Butler generously plowing us out of our driveway, and giving me a ride home when I locked my keys in the car. Retriever was in car too!!!!! Fine memories.

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Patty Sprague
10/21/2019 05:17:49 pm

Stacey and entire Butler family I am so very sorry to hear of your dad’s (husband and grandfathers ) passing. So many fond memories of your dad Stacey growing up in the neighborhood. Condolences to all.

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Mike Lemm link
10/22/2019 02:13:05 am

John always made me laugh, even during stressful times in booking. God bless you John, I’m sure you’re making the angels in heaven laugh too. Rest In Peace brother🙏🙏🙏🇺🇸

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Le Moyne College
10/22/2019 08:12:55 am

Please accept the most heartfelt sympathies of Le Moyne College. We hope the love and memories you will forever hold in your heart bring you peace and comfort during this difficult time.

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Susie Hills
10/22/2019 08:37:20 am

Barb and family, So sorry to hear of John’s passing. He put up a good fight! He was a good man and true friend. I am so glad I got to see him in Mach especially being St. Patrick’s Day. Barb enjoy all the good memories and take care of yourself now RIP My friend.

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angel grassman sherpa
10/22/2019 10:27:09 am

so sorry for your loss...my grandfather sargent William c grassman worked with john many years at the old psb..rest in peace..

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American Legion Robert J. Hydon Post 239 link
10/22/2019 12:28:32 pm

Dear Barb, Stacey, Dale & FAM,

On behalf of the entire American Legion FAM we stand with you, salute and say Godspeed to Post Everlasting, John!
We shall always remember John and his dedicated service to our Community and America's defense. His big hearted smile shall always remain with us.

For God & Country,

Eric Amberge
Commander, Robert J. Hydon Post 239

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Bernard Beck
10/22/2019 02:01:59 pm

Andy and Family
My deepest and heartfelt sympathies on John's passing.
May he rest in peace.

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IC1 David C Allen, USN(ret)
10/22/2019 07:04:34 pm

My Brother-in-arms will be missed. We attended Onondaga Valley Academy and we looked forward to seeing each other at Class of 61 reunions. As a kid I remember going to McKinley park to watch the Simmons School softball team play. They were called "THE DIGGERS" and wore black uniforms with silver lettering. Always talked with John about that. I am sorry I cannot attend funeral. I am now a 100% Veteran and it is to much for me to travel. Just k ow I will be t bgg here in spirit.
John, your are properly relieved of t hff e watch, rest in peace Brother, we have the watch now. HAND SALUTE!!!!!!

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Sandra and Barry Bullock
10/23/2019 07:57:16 am

Barb and family,
We are so very sorry to hear about your loss. He certainly lived his life well and touched many people. Please accept our sincerest condolences.

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Gary W Williams link
10/23/2019 08:05:06 pm

Jack, you and I worked well together on many projects, especially decorating gravesites for deceased deputies, was shocked to hear of your passing on Sunday the 20th/2019. Working when we could for the Coast Guard Auxiliary. We found out that our dads were both partners in the 121st Cavalry and both were original members of the Cavalry Club and we continued the tradition..May you rest in peace that we didn't have while we were alive.Fair winds and following seas on the staff of the Supreme Commander. I also render to you HAND SALUTE....

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James Paul Brady
10/24/2019 05:27:35 pm

Dear Bararba,Stacy,and Family,I will remember the good times we had at the Cavalry Club.John was my Parliamentary buddy.We sat on the committee to revise the Bylaw of the club.He was a fightly buddy.I will miss him at he annual Troop D meeting.God will be looking after him now.

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Chris Legg
10/25/2019 04:21:27 pm

Stacy, my sincere condolences to you and your family. Your Dad wonderfully supported the Skaneateles Sea Scouts and so many other activities. His generous sharing benefits so many.

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Nancy Cannucciari
10/27/2019 11:46:23 am

Stacey and Butler family, I was saddened to read in the church bulletin today, about your dad's passing. Please know that you are in my prayers and thoughts. A beautiful tribute to a life well lived.

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Le Moyne College, Alumni Office
10/28/2019 07:22:21 am

Please accept the most heartfelt sympathies of Le Moyne College. We hope the love and memories that you will forever hold in your heart bring you peace and comfort during this difficult time.

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Anne Ruggeri
10/28/2019 09:47:31 am

To the Butler family,
I’m very sorry to learn of Jack’s passing. I had the honor of meeting him when he gave me a ride back to my car following the end of the Syracuse St Patrick’s Day Parade in 2014.
He also gave me his Business Card and told me if I ever needed a ride, anywhere, to call him!
I never did, but to know there was someone out there willing to help a stranger get to an appointment or to get back home, that was awesome!
Thank you Jack, I’m calling you in Heaven to say “Thanks!”

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Bill & Mary Holland
10/30/2019 09:37:48 am

To the Butler family,
We were very sorry to hear of the loss of the man who we lovingly referred to as J." Bubba" Butler. We both worked with John and enjoyed his humor and dedication. We were extremely thankful to John for his assistance in providing a Masonic ceremony when Bill's father passed away. You have our deepest condolences.

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10/31/2019 01:35:11 pm

Very sorry to hear of John passing. He was more of a friend then a customer. He would hang out in our service department and talk to the staff and other customers for hours. He could make friends with anyone and was always upbeat. It seems that he lived an exceptional life. Our deepest sympathy to his family and friends. He will be missed.

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1/9/2020 06:13:19 pm

I just found out My condolences to John, Stacy, Jenny and Barb. I am so sorry about your loss. I remember going to school with his son John and were best friends. My thought and prayers are with you always.
Ben Adams

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